Will we -- Gay Men -- always be "also rans"?
This is a rapidly becoming a real pet peeve of mine. To add insult to injury, this really shouldn't be a problem at all. But, it also goes to illustrate some very real differences between how you think/act/conduct some forms of business if you are a member of the majority group, even if you want to try and provide for the needs of one of the more marginal groups. I'm talking about Pornography and how it's categorized, marketed and even thought about by those in charge. Now, to begin with I am not against porn -- in fact far from it. I am an avid consumer. But, over the years I've seen a few things that became obviously apparent when porn moved to primarily from the store around the corner to the internet. This is one of the few places where one size truly does not fit all. I'm talking about how the web sites categorized the various videos. Now, you would think that with all the things a computer and do, especially when it comes to finding things, this would be a no ...